Conscious Relating Foundations
through The Wheel of Consentยฉ

Creating Healthy & Fulfilling Relationships

The Foundations for Conscious & Healthy Relationships
๐ŸŒฟ For a relationship where love can thrive, we need to always start with Truth! Truth about what our Boundaries are and Truth about what our Needs & Desires are.
๐ŸŒฟ In order to live in Truth, we need to master the capacity to communicate our boundaries, needs & desires authentically.
๐ŸŒฟ Boundaries & the Expression of them (and learning how to deal with that as a doer at the same time) are therefor one of the foundation pillars of any healthy relationship. And at the same time of any touch related activity!
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to become an absolute Master at Boundaries is one of the most self-empowering practices one can engage in!
๐ŸŒฟ Because through boundaries you learn to keep yourself safe and only when you feel safe, your body can relax. And a relaxed body allows you to step into your higher self!
๐ŸŒฟ Conscious boundary setting will unlock the magic of each moment, enabling you to fully surrender to each moment and each interaction safely.
๐ŸŒฟ Touch is a beautiful way to practice those skills. However, these skills are equally valuable and useful in daily life, work life or whenever you need to set boundaries like a pro. You will learn how to set boundaries in such a way that people will appreciate you speaking your truth!
๐ŸŒฟ At the same time, we also need to learn how to ask for what we want, without making assumptions, so we can fully step into self-nourishment.
๐ŸŒฟ Most of us are holding back on that, leaving us unfulfilled, and ponder on "what if..."


Method of learning
We will use the moda
lity of the The Wheel of Consent to construct the foundations of conscious touch and conscious relating.

What is The Wheel of Consent?
The Wheel of Consent is a powerful modality that will help you living your Truth from moment to moment.
The Wheel of Consent can also give you deep understanding on how to increase sensitivity in your body and really tune in to what feels right for you.
What is pleasurable to you?
How do you ask for what you want and need?
Understanding this practice can be life changing, healing and have profound improvements in your relationships and interactions with people!

You will learn these Foundations
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Truth unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Boundaries unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Needs & Desires unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Waking up sensuality โ€“ feeling and following pleasure
๐ŸŒฟ Making choices โ€“ learning how to choose for yourself and letting go of unhealthy pleasing tendencies
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to authentically feel your desires and then learning how to communicate them effectively
๐ŸŒฟ Communicating boundaries & adjustments effectively
๐ŸŒฟ Taking responsibility for your own pleasure
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to increase your pleasure capacity
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to increase your capacity to love
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to identify acts of toxic love and how to change them into acts of healthy love
๐ŸŒฟ Understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving and taking them apart
๐ŸŒฟ Understanding who is doing and who it is for โ€“ because they are different
๐ŸŒฟ Gaining skills of empowerment โ€“ noticing, valuing, and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’” ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’ˆ๐’–๐’‚๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’•๐’†๐’†. ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‘๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’๐’•๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’ƒ๐’๐’†. ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’˜๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’–๐’‘ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’ ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’Š๐’• ๐’‰๐’‚๐’‘๐’‘๐’†๐’!

(Re)Building Trust
Practising and learning to Master the content and exercises presented in the Conscious Relating Foundations Masterclass is one of the most effective ways of (re)building Trust in yourself.

Trust in your desires, in your boundaries, in what is important for you.
And ultimately (re)building a deep Trust in yourself.
Which is one of the deepest forms of Self-Love....

Testimonials
๐ŸŒŸ โ€œThe Wheel of Consent Masterclass gave me deep understanding of my own behavioral patterns (always serving others) and my challenges (to speak up for my desires). In the consent & polarity workshops I learned hands on tools, not only to speak up for my desires but also how to practice this in soft conscious and loving strength and surrender. Very useful in so many aspects of my life!โ€

๐ŸŒŸ โ€œThe Wheel of Consent Masterclass showed me my shadows, where they came from, and how to heal them. I also learned to own my desires and to effectively communicate regarding boundaries and desires."

Spirituality through the Wheel of Consent
The Wheel of Consent will, in a very subtle way, teach you 4 powerful spiritual aspects of life:
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, and the art of how to do that in completely safety.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, how to be radically honest to yourself and others in a loving way.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ, which increases our overall well-being and sense of self-worth.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, how to give from a truly open heart, without needing anything in return.

Registration
We have a maximum of 18 participants!
Registration is necessary to secure your spot.
www.tantrasecrets.academy/eventregistration

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Connection level: โค๏ธ โค๏ธ โค๏ธ โค๏ธ โค๏ธ
Possible nudity: ๐ŸŒฑ (NO NUDITY)
Meditativeness: ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰

Essence
In essence this Masterclass will teach you the Foundational Boundaries & Expression tools that you can use in any activity. From personal, relationship, sexual interactions to even business interactions!
All of this is being offered in a safe fully clothed environment.
We look forward to sharing all the exciting details about Expression of Desires within Consent & Boundaries with you and much more!

Masterclass Content
This Masterclass is an immersion of self awareness, consenTsual touch, boundaries, desires and freedom of expression. In a safe space you can learn how to communicate your boundaries and desires, how to touch, how to empower yourself through touch and release shame, fear and guilt around asking what you want. Exploring the dynamics between giving and receiving.

We will do practical partner exercises where we will be exploring these areas in a playful way in a safe container and sharing circles to discuss what we are experiencing. You are never forced to do anything you don't want. In fact we encourage and empower you to speak up when you for example need more time or need a moment to yourself.

Wheel of Consent origin
Parts of this
workshop are originally created by Betty Martin, founder of The Wheel of Consent concept.
Roger is a certified facilitator of The Wheel of Consent.

For more information watch this or one of the other videoโ€™s on the The Wheel of Consent or go to: www.bettymartin.org or www.schoolofconsent.org

Masterclass Content Who is this Masterclass for?
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants to become more self aware, connected to themselves and learn to listen to their body
โ™ฅ Anyone who want to feel more empowered in their communication
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants to feel more confident when they touch, or receive touch and learn how to give and receive feedback
โ™ฅ Anyone looking to improve speaking up for their boundaries
โ™ฅ Anyone looking to improve speaking up for their needs and desires
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants deeper connections and more intimacy in their lives.

This Masterclass is open to any gender, orientation and age. Singles or couples.

I am single or not in a relationship, can I still join?
Yes you can. Because it has many advantages to learn these foundations
before you enter a relationship. You chances of any relationship fulfilling your needs dramatically increase by learning these tools.

Do I need to bring a partner?
No, you can come alone if you like. If you want to bring your partner, you are more than welcome.
Being partnered up with the opposite sex is NOT guaranteed if you don't bring a partner.

I am joining as a couple, do we have to work with other people?
No. You can do the entire workshop with your partner.
However, if you want you can join the partner rotation circle after each exercise to get different imprints and learnings, but this is completely optional.
You decide what feels right for you. And this may change during the workshop and it may also stay the same, both is completely fine!

The Schedule

Friday
18.00 Arrival & Registration
18.30 Start of workshop
22.30 Expected ending time of workshop

Saturday
09.30 Arrival
10.00 Start of workshop
13.00 Lunch break
14.30 Workshop continues
19.00 Expected ending time of workshop

Sunday
10.00 Arrival
10.30 Start of workshop
14.00 Lunch break
15.30 Workshop continues
19:00 Expected ending time of workshop

The first 4 hours on Friday from 18.30 - 22.30 are also an introduction workshop for people who want to have a taster before they decide to join the full event.

This event will also be marketed seperately as the Conscious Relating - Introduction workshop.
For more info and to invite friends:
https://www.tantrasecrets.academy/event-details/conscious-relating-introduction

THE FACILITATORS

Roger
Roger is the founder of the Tantra Secrets - Consciousness Expansion Academy and the lead workshop facilitator. He has an extensive background in Tantra, Daoism, Energy Reading, Energy Play, Hypnosis (Sexual & Regular), Latin Dance, Consent work, Authentic Communication, Trauma Release, Deconditioning, Sacred Sexuality & Meditation.

Wheel of Consentยฉ Certified Facilitator
He has completed the 5-day "Like a Pro" Wheel of Consentยฉ training in May 2019 and has completed the Wheel of Consentยฉ Facilitator Certification Training with Betty Martin in July 2021. Currently he is in the process of the final certification, and officially still under the title of "
Wheel of Consentยฉ Certified Facilitator in Training".
Therefore, the topic of Consent & Boundaries therefore are
always practiced and deepened in Rogers workshops!

Former High Paid Consultant
A former high paid independent consultant for multinationals, he made a drastic switch in his life towards the mystical & spiritual side of life.
His passion is maximizing human potential, happiness & authenticity!

Roger runs workshops on the topics of Personal, Emotional & Spiritual Development, Consciousness Expansion, Tantra, Emotional Freedom, Kundalini Awakening, Wheel of Consent, Conscious Relating, Conscious Kink, Polarity Play, Female Empowerment, Tantra into Zouk, Tantric Masculinity, Sex Art & Implosive Orgasms!

Licensed Energy Reader
He is a graduated & licensed Energy Healer and specializes in personal Energy Readings.
Through Energy Readings he communicates to you that which your body and your soul is trying to tell to your conscious mind, but is not being heard.

Hypnosis

He is a trained hypnotist in the field of female orgasmic capacity enhancement. Through other hypnosis practises he also trains people to profoundly relax in a matter of seconds (without use of sexual energy).
Subsequently, the practise of hypnosis has given him a tremendous understanding of the workings of the subconscious mind, primal sexuality and the general potential of NLP and positive self-(re)programming.

Inner Child Healing
Furthermore, he works extensively with Childhood Deconditioning & Inner Child tools through which he facilitates the process of deconditioning from the negative imprints from childhood.

Gateways for Fulfillment
In Tantra, Daoism & Spirituality he found many gateways to bring more joy, happiness, and fulfillment to our lives and he has a passion to spread this wisdom!

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Roger is the lead facilitator for the following workshops:

  • Conscious Relating Foundations (and the Introduction)

  • Emotional Freedom & Consciouness Expansion - Intensive

  • Emotional Freedom & Consciouness Expansion - Masterclass (online)

  • Spicy Polarity series

  • Tantra into Zouk

  • Sex Art

  • Tantric Massage & De-armouring (co-lead with Jasper)

  • Kundalini Shakti Awakening Retreat


Roger is the organisor & lead-assistant for the following workshops:

  • Primal Childhood Deconditioning - Intensive (Holland edition)

  • The Rebel (Holland edition)

Furthermore, he offers coaching (programs) in the following fields

  • The Path of Consciousness Expansion & Emotional Freedom

  • Couple Therapy / Relationship Coaching

  • Female Orgasmic Capacity

  • Tantric Masculinity

  • Sexual Abundance for Men

  • Instant Relaxation Capacity Training


FEMALE FACILITATORS
There will always be a high Level female Tantric practitioner assisting to represent and deeply embody the Feminine principle. For this the Conscious Relating Foundations workshops Jolien Heeringa will be one of the Female Facilitators.

Jolien
Jolien is a certified healthcare psychologist working with people with trauma for more then 13 years. She started in 2009 with an internship at a center for people with PTSD, and throughout her career working with trauma always fascinated her.

As a professional psychologist she has also worked with people with ADHD, Autism, Addiction, Depression and Anxiety disorders.

She is trained and certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR and Mindfulness.
Currently she works with clients with severe eating disorders.

What sets her apart is her capacity to not just focus on solving the superficial problem as prescribed by the system, but to see the person in its totality. She developed a holistic approach where it is about the process of every human being, their blockages and how to bring people to the next level in their life. The importance of using the body in therapy also makes her look for ways outside of the regular healthcare system.

Her passion for dancing and teaching Zouk since 2009 made her dive deeper in the understanding of connection with and through the body.

When she discovered Tantra, it opened up the pathway to connect her knowledge of trauma and the human mind with body oriented modalities. She is now studying body-oriented psychotherapy, breathwork and de-armouring to help people heal energetic blockages and trauma stored in the body.

She is a freelance Zouk teacher since 2010. Since end 2020 Jolien is also part of the Tantra Secrets team, and co-facilitates Tantra workshops, breathwork and De-armouring sessions.

She works together with Jasper, where they offer the perfect balance in the masculine and feminine energy in massage, body work sessions and plant ceremonies.

Registration
We have a maximum of 18 participants!
Registration is neccesary to secure your spot
:

Practicalities

Upcoming editions:
โ–บ 10 - 12 March 2023 -- Hulst (near Antwerp, Belgium)
โ–  Start: Friday 10 March at 18.00
โ–  End: Sunday
12 March at 19.00


โ–บ 17 - 19 March 2023 -- Amsterdam
โ–  Start: Friday 10 March at 18.00
โ–  End: Sunday 12 March at 19.00


โ–บ 31 March - 2 April 2023 -- Bonn, Germany
โ–  Start: Friday 10 March at 18.00
โ–  End: Sunday 12 March at 19.00

โ–บ 21 - 23 April 2023 -- Amoraleza (Granada), Spain
โ–  Start: Friday 28 April at 15.00
โ–  End: Sunday 30 April at 19.00

โ–บ 28 - 30 April 2023 -- Manchester, United Kingdom
โ–  Start: Friday 28 April at 18.00
โ–  End: Sunday
30 April at 19.00

Registration
We have a maximum of 18 participants!
Registration is necessary to secure your spot.
www.tantrasecrets.academy/eventregistration

PRICING


Workshop fee
โ‚ฌ 425,- standard price for single participation, excluding meals & accommodation.

Money Back Guarantee!

If after day 2 you are not satisfied with the covered material, we will return 100% of the paid course tuition to you.

We only want to charge money when you are satisfied with the content of this workshop!

Something about Karma...


Spread Payment Plan
โ–  Two payments of โ‚ฌ 215,-
โ–  Three payments of โ‚ฌ 145,-
Discounts may be subtracted from last payment.

Discounts
โ— โ‚ฌ 25,- for cash payment

โ— โ‚ฌ 35,- Bring-a-Friend (newby to Tantra Secrets)
(Discount applies to BOTH of you)
โ— โ‚ฌ 35 couple discount (per person)
โ— โ‚ฌ
150,- students / low income
โ— โ‚ฌ
50,- PhD Students
โ— 40% for repeaters
โ— 50% on workshop fee when earning income in former communistic countries


Early-Bird Discounts
โ–บ โ‚ฌ 75,- discount on workshop fee when signed up 3 months before starting date of workshop
โ–บ โ‚ฌ 50,- discount on workshop fee when signed up 2 months before starting date of workshop
โ–บ โ‚ฌ 25,- discount on workshop fee when signed up 1 month before starting date of workshop

Payment options
โ–  Cash (โ‚ฌ 25,- discount)
โ–  Bank transfer

โ–  PayPal

โ–  Revolut


Food
โ— Lunch โ‚ฌ 10

โ— Dinner โ‚ฌ 12 (optional, is after the workshop)

To be paid separately in cash before workshop.

Please sign up for lunch and/or dinner at registration.

Lunch & dinner will be 100% Vegan + mostly Gluten-free. Allergies can be notified in registration form.


Accommodation

โ— This is a non-residential retreat!
โ— However, at some locations couch surfing can be provided for โ‚ฌ 15,- p.p.p.n. Matras, duvet, pillow, covers & towel included.

โ— Private double-bed room can be provided (if available) for โ‚ฌ 65,- per room per night. Max 2 people.

A third person can be added for an additional โ‚ฌ 25,- per night.


Location
Depending on date, see calendar or date overview
Exact locations will be provided after registration.


Parking (Amsterdam location)

Friday & Saturday it is paid parking 9.00 - 23.59 for โ‚ฌ 4,50 per hour! We have a max of 5 free parking spots available, sign-up for that during registration.
Sunday is free parking.


Registration
Registration is necessary to secure your spot & early bird discount: