Using the Tantric perspective on our every day problems, can be incredibly efficient. Most of us are so used to having to figure it out by ourselves, we often end up getting stuck.
Also, the health care system in the modern world, has a very limited understanding and experience with true intimacy and sacred sexuality.
While the sexual expression is often at the core of our being, it is there often also connected to the core of our problem. Many people are either unaware of this, or are in some form of denial or resistance. This is very normal because it is of course very personal. So, who to go to?
Perhaps people with a deep understanding of both psychogology, sexuality and emotions can help you with this.

Individual Coaching Topics
We specialize in the following topics for individual sessions:

Relationship Coaching (Individual, focussing on how to turn your relationship around or increasing Polarity / satisfying sexual connection as main topic)
Couple Therapy based on Tantric Principles
Tantric Sexuality coaching, teaching you the principles of Tantric Sexuality
Orgasmic capacity enhancement or disfunction healing
Hypnotic Orgasm training
Regression therapy
► Instant Relaxation Training
► Anxiety disorders

See below for more detailed discription of each coaching topic.

Free 20-minute exploration call
We invite you to a free 20-minute exploration call on the topic most important to you.
Fill in your details here and we will contact you for to book your exploration session.

Free does not mean without commitment
The session is free of charge, which means you can enter without a financial investment. The session will require the full attention of the Tantric Coach.
We are willing to offer free exploration sessions for people who are serious to take action on their problems if they feel the coach can help them.
Therefor we want you to enter the session under the following conditions:

1. You have an intention to invest time, money and effort into reconnecting to your relationship partner
or to work on your problem.
2. You are willing to be honest and 100% truthful abo
ut how you feel. You can hide things from your coach, but that will basically mean you will end up wasting your money and time. We can only work through Truth.
3. You are willing to change habits. This is often the hardest part. But if there is no Willingness to give commitment to Change a higher priority than habits or fear, then we suggest you try the governmental health care system. They are better suited for that...

If you can meet these commitment, then we are very excited to work with you and more than willing to offer you a free 30-minute exploration call.

In order to make that call very efficicient we ask you to fill this form, so you can let us know some important background information about who you are and how you grew up etc.

Your information will of course be handled with the utmost privacy.

Relationship Coaching / Tantric Couple Therapy
For a relationship where love can thrive, we need to always start with Truth! Truth about what our Boundaries are and Truth about what our Needs & Desires are.
Most relationships that are not working start to get stuck either on the field of Truth or on the Field of Love.
Therefor, doing 5 - 10
Relationship Coaching or Tantric Couple Therapy sessions, to see if this caay be very benificial to your relationship and your personal development.

Sexuality Coaching
Info will follow

Orgasmic Capacity Enhancement or disfunction healing
Info will follow

Hypnotic Orgasm Training
Info will follow

Regression Therapy
Info will follow

Instant Relaxation Training
Info will follow

Anxiety disorders
Info will follow


Roger is the founder of Tantra Secrets and has an extensive background in Tantra, Daoism, Energy Reading, Energy Play, Hypnosis (Sexual & Regular), Latin Dance, Trauma Release, Deconditioning, Sacred Sexuality & Meditation.

A former high paid independent consultant for multinationals, he made a drastic switch in his life towards the mystical & spiritual side of life.
His passion is maximizing human potential, happiness & authenticity!

Roger runs workshops on the topics of Personal, Emotional & Spiritual Development, Consciousness Expansion, Tantra, Emotional Freedom, Kundalini Awakening, Wheel of Consent, Conscious Kink, Polarity Play, Female Empowerment, Tantric Masculinity, Sex Art & Implosive Orgasms!

The topic of consent is always practiced and deepened in his workshops!

He is a graduated & licensed Energy Healer and specializes in personal Energy Readings.
Through Energy Readings he communicates to you that which your body and your soul is trying to tell to your conscious mind, but is not being heard.
Through hypnosis he trains people to profoundly relax in a matter of seconds.

He works with Childhood Deconditioning & Inner Child tools through which he facilitates the process of deconditioning from the negative imprints from our childhood.

In Tantra he found many gateways to bring more joy, happiness, and fulfillment to our lives and he has a passion to spread this wisdom!

Jolien is a certified healthcare psychologist working with people with trauma for more then 12 years. She started in 2009 with an internship at a center for people with PTSD, and throughout her career working with trauma always fascinated her.

As a professional psychologist she has also worked with people with ADHD, Autism, Addiction, Depression and Anxiety disorders.
She is trained and certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR and Mindfulness.
Currently she works with clients experiencing mild to severe burn-outs symptoms.

What sets her apart is her capacity to not just focus on solving the superficial problem as prescribed by the system, but to see the person in its totality. She developed a holistic approach where it is about the process of every human being, their blockages and how to bring people to the next level in their life. The importance of using the body in therapy also makes her look for ways outside of the regular healthcare system.

Her passion for dancing and teaching Zouk since 2009 made her dive deeper in the understanding of connection with and through the body.
When she discovered Tantra, it opened up the pathway to connect her knowledge of trauma and the human mind with body oriented modalities. She is now studying body-oriented psychotherapy, breathwork and de-armouring to help people heal energetic blockages and trauma stored in the body.

She is a freelance Zouk teacher since 2010. Since end 2020 Jolien is also part of the Tantra Secrets team, and co-facilitates Tantra workshops and De-armouring sessions.

Pricing, Discounts & Payment options

Coaching session
150,- per hour, minimum of 1½ hour per session.

Coaching packages

5 sessions: 5% discount

10 sessions: 10% discount
15 sessions
: 15% discount

20+ sessions: 20% discount

Spread Payment Plan
Two payments - add 2% to payments
Three payments - add 3% to payments

Four payments - add 4% to payments
Five payments - add 5% to payments


Example 1: You choose to take 15 sessions. That gives you 15% discount on the total session fee, because we reward commitment.
You decide to pay in 4 payments, that adds 4% to your payments.
Final payment: € 150 * 1
½ = € 225 * 15 sessions = € 3.375.
Minus 15% discount =
€ 3.375 -/- 15% = € 2.868,75.
2.868,75 / 4 payments = € 717, 19.
Adding 4% for 4 payments = € 745, 88.

Example 2: You choose to take 10 sessions. That gives you 10% discount on the session fee, because we reward commitment.
You decide to pay in
3 payments, that adds 3% to your payments.
Final payment: € 150 * 1½ = € 225 * 1
0 sessions = € 2.250.
Minus 1
0% discount = € 2.250 -/- 10% = € 2.025.
2.025 / 3 payments = € 675.
3% for 3 payments = € 695,25 per payment.

Payment options
Cash (10% discount)
Bank transfer (Euro IBAN account)




Billing can be done to you personal, as well as to your company if needed.
Coaching topic can be labeled as mindfulness training or assertivity training etc.