Conscious Relating through
the Wheel of Consent

~ Introduction Workshop ~

Introduction to Learning the Foundations for
Healthy Connections &

๐ŸŒฟ For a connection(s) where love can thrive, we need to always start with Truth! Truth about what our Boundaries are and Truth about what our Needs & Desires are.
๐ŸŒฟ In order to live in Truth, we need to master the capacity to communicate our boundaries, needs & desires authentically.
๐ŸŒฟ Boundaries & the Expression of them (and learning how to deal with that as a doer at the same time) are therefor one of the foundation pillars of any healthy relationship. And at the same time of any touch related activity!
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to become an absolute Master at Boundaries is one of the most self-empowering practices one can engage in!
๐ŸŒฟ Because through boundaries you learn to keep yourself safe and only when you feel safe, your body can relax. And a relaxed body allows you to step into your higher self!
๐ŸŒฟ Conscious boundary setting will unlock the magic of each moment, enabling you to fully surrender to each moment and each interaction safely.
๐ŸŒฟ Touch is a beautiful way to practice those skills. However, these skills are equally valuable and useful in daily life, work life or whenever you need to set boundaries like a pro. You will learn how to set boundaries in such a way that people will appreciate you speaking your truth!
๐ŸŒฟ At the same time, we also need to learn how to ask for what we want, without making assumptions, so we can fully step into self-nourishment.
๐ŸŒฟ Most of us are holding back on that, leaving us unfulfilled, and ponder on "what if..."

Method of learning
We will use the modality of the The Wheel of Consent to construct the foundations of conscious touch and conscious relating.

What is The Wheel of Consent?
The Wheel of Consent is a powerful modality that will help you living your Truth from moment to moment.
The Wheel of Consent can also give you deep understanding on how to increase sensitivity in your body and really tune in to what feels right for you.
What is pleasurable to you?
How do you ask for what you want and need?
Understanding this practice can be life changing, healing and have profound improvements in your relationships and interactions with people!

Through these tools you will be introduces with these Conscious Relating Foundations
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Truth unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Boundaries unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Owning & expressing your Needs & Desires unapologetically
๐ŸŒฟ Waking up sensuality โ€“ feeling and following pleasure
๐ŸŒฟ Making choices โ€“ learning how to choose for yourself and letting go of unhealthy pleasing tendencies
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to authentically feel your desires and then learning how to communicate them effectively
๐ŸŒฟ Communicating boundaries & adjustments effectively
๐ŸŒฟ Taking responsibility for your own pleasure
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to increase your pleasure capacity
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to increase your capacity to love
๐ŸŒฟ Learning to identify acts of toxic love and how to change them into acts of healthy love
๐ŸŒฟ Understanding the dynamics of giving and receiving and taking them apart
๐ŸŒฟ Understanding who is doing and who it is for โ€“ because they are different
๐ŸŒฟ Gaining skills of empowerment โ€“ noticing, valuing, and trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive.

๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ๐’” ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’๐’• ๐’‚ ๐’ˆ๐’–๐’‚๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’•๐’†๐’†. ๐’€๐’๐’– ๐’ˆ๐’†๐’• ๐’๐’–๐’• ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‘๐’–๐’• ๐’Š๐’. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’๐’•๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’‚๐’ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’—๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’ ๐’‚๐’๐’… ๐’‘๐’๐’”๐’”๐’Š๐’ƒ๐’๐’†. ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’˜๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’‰๐’‚๐’—๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’”๐’‰๐’๐’˜ ๐’–๐’‘ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’ ๐’Ž๐’‚๐’Œ๐’† ๐’Š๐’• ๐’‰๐’‚๐’‘๐’‘๐’†๐’!

(Re)Building Trust
Practising and learning to Master the content and exercises presented in the Conscious Relating Foundations Masterclass is one of the most effective ways of (re)building Trust in yourself.
Trust in your desires, in your boundaries, in what is important for you.
And ultimately (re)building a deep in Trust in yourself.
Which is one of the deepest forms of Self-Love....

๐ŸŒŸ โ€œThe Wheel of Consent Masterclass gave me deep understanding of my own behavioral patterns (always serving others) and my challenges (to speak up for my desires). In the consent & polarity workshops I learned hands on tools, not only to speak up for my desires but also how to practice this in soft conscious and loving strength and surrender. Very useful in so many aspects of my life!โ€

๐ŸŒŸ โ€œThe Wheel of Consent Masterclass showed me my shadows, where they came from, and how to heal them. I also learned to own my desires and to effectively communicate regarding boundaries and desires."

Spirituality through the Wheel of Consent
The Wheel of Consent will, in a very subtle way, teach you 4 powerful spiritual aspects of life:
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, and the art of how to do that in completely safety.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, how to be radically honest to yourself and others in a loving way.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—š๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ, which increases our overall well-being and sense of self-worth.
๐Ÿ•‰ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, how to give from a truly open heart, without needing anything in return.

We have a maximum of 18 participants!
Registration is necessary to secure your spot.

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Meditativeness: ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰ ๐Ÿ•‰

In essence this Masterclass will teach you the Foundational Boundaries & Expression tools that you can use in any activity. From personal, relationship, sexual interactions to even business interactions!
All of this is being offered in a safe fully clothed environment.
We look forward to sharing all the exciting details about Expression of Desires within Consent & Boundaries with you and much more!

This introduction evening is an immersion of self awareness, consenTsual touch, boundaries, desires and freedom of expression. In a safe space you can learn how to communicate your boundaries and desires, how to touch, how to empower yourself through touch and release shame, fear and guilt around asking what you want. Exploring the dynamics between giving and receiving.

We will do practical partner exercises where we will be exploring these areas in a playful way in a safe container and sharing circles to discuss what we are experiencing. You are never forced to do anything you don't want. In fact we encourage and empower you to speak up when you for example need more time or need a moment to yourself.

Wheel of Consent origin
Parts of this workshop are originally created by Betty Martin, founder of The Wheel of Consent concept.
Roger is a certified facilitator of The Wheel of Consent.

For more information watch this or one of the other videoโ€™s on the The Wheel of Consent or go to: or

Masterclass Content Who is this Masterclass for?
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants to become more self aware, connected to themselves and learn to listen to their body
โ™ฅ Anyone who want to feel more empowered in their communication
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants to feel more confident when they touch, or receive touch and learn how to give and receive feedback
โ™ฅ Anyone looking to improve speaking up for their boundaries
โ™ฅ Anyone looking to improve speaking up for their needs and desires
โ™ฅ Anyone who wants deeper connections and more intimacy in their lives.

This Masterclass is open to any gender, orientation and age. Singles or couples.

I am single or not in a relationship, can I still join?
Yes you can. Because it has many advantages to learn these foundations
before you enter a relationship. You chances of any relationship fulfilling your needs dramatically increase by learning these tools.

Do I need to bring a partner?
No, you can come alone if you like. If you want to bring your partner, you are more than welcome.
Being partnered up with the opposite sex is NOT guaranteed if you don't bring a partner.

I am joining as a couple, do we have to work with other people?
No. You can do the entire workshop with your partner.
However, if you want you can join the partner rotation circle after each exercise to get different imprints and learnings, but this is completely optional.
You decide what feels right for you. And this may change during the workshop and it may also stay the same, both is completely fine!

The Schedule

Evening workshop (check the dates)
18.00 Arrival & Registration
18.30 Start of workshop
30 Expected ending time of workshop

Day workshop (check the dates)
1.30 Arrival & Registration
1.45 Start of workshop
14.00 Lunch break
17.00 Expected ending time of workshop


Roger is the founder of the Tantra Secrets - Consciousness Expansion Academy and the lead workshop facilitator. He has an extensive background in Tantra, Daoism, Energy Reading, Energy Play, Hypnosis (Sexual & Regular), Latin Dance, Consent work, Authentic Communication, Trauma Release, Deconditioning, Sacred Sexuality & Meditation.

Wheel of Consentยฉ Certified Facilitator
He has completed the 5-day "Like a Pro" Wheel of Consentยฉ training in May 2019 and has completed the Wheel of Consentยฉ Facilitator Certification Training with Betty Martin in July 2021. Currently he is in the process of the final certification, and officially still under the title of "
Wheel of Consentยฉ Certified Facilitator in Training".
Therefore, the topic of Consent & Boundaries therefore are
always practiced and deepened in Rogers workshops!

Former High Paid Consultant
A former high paid independent consultant for multinationals, he made a drastic switch in his life towards the mystical & spiritual side of life.
His passion is maximizing human potential, happiness & authenticity!

Roger runs workshops on the topics of Personal, Emotional & Spiritual Development, Consciousness Expansion, Tantra, Emotional Freedom, Kundalini Awakening, Wheel of Consent, Conscious Relating, Conscious Kink, Polarity Play, Female Empowerment, Tantra into Zouk, Tantric Masculinity, Sex Art & Implosive Orgasms!

Licensed Energy Reader
He is a graduated & licensed Energy Healer and specializes in personal Energy Readings.
Through Energy Readings he communicates to you that which your body and your soul is trying to tell to your conscious mind, but is not being heard.


He is a trained hypnotist in the field of female orgasmic capacity enhancement. Through other hypnosis practises he also trains people to profoundly relax in a matter of seconds (without use of sexual energy).
Subsequently, the practise of hypnosis has given him a tremendous understanding of the workings of the subconscious mind, primal sexuality and the general potential of NLP and positive self-(re)programming.

Inner Child Healing
Furthermore, he works extensively with Childhood Deconditioning & Inner Child tools through which he facilitates the process of deconditioning from the negative imprints from childhood.

Gateways for Fulfillment
In Tantra, Daoism & Spirituality he found many gateways to bring more joy, happiness, and fulfillment to our lives and he has a passion to spread this wisdom!


Roger is the lead facilitator for the following workshops:

  • Conscious Relating Foundations (and the Introduction)

  • Emotional Freedom & Consciouness Expansion - Intensive

  • Emotional Freedom & Consciouness Expansion - Masterclass (online)

  • Spicy Polarity series

  • Tantra into Zouk

  • Sex Art

  • Tantric Massage & De-armouring (co-lead with Jasper)

  • Kundalini Shakti Awakening Retreat

Roger is the organisor & lead-assistant for the following workshops:

  • Primal Childhood Deconditioning - Intensive (Holland edition)

  • The Rebel (Holland edition)

Furthermore, he offers coaching (programs) in the following fields

  • The Path of Consciousness Expansion & Emotional Freedom

  • Couple Therapy / Relationship Coaching

  • Female Orgasmic Capacity

  • Tantric Masculinity

  • Sexual Abundance for Men

  • Instant Relaxation Capacity Training

We have a maximum of 18 participants!
Registration is neccesary to secure your spot:


Upcoming editions:
โ–  Friday 7 October 18.00 - 22.30
โ–  Friday 14 October 18.00 - 22.30

Maximum 18 participants!
Registration is necessary to secure your spot.


Workshop fee
โ‚ฌ 35,- standard price for single participation. Cash only.

โค๏ธ โ‚ฌ
10,- Bring-a-Friend (newby to Tantra Secrets)
discount applies to BOTH of you)
โค๏ธ โ‚ฌ 1
0,- students / low income

Discounts may be stacked.

Amsterdam Oud-Zuid.
Exact location will be provided after registration.

Public Transport:
Train & bus stop close to the lo
Direct bus from Amsterdam-Schiphol Airport that takes 20 minutes to the location.


On Friday is paid parking until 23.59 for โ‚ฌ 4,50 per hour! We have a max of 5 free parking spots available, sign-up for that during registration.

Registration is necessary to secure your spot & early bird discount: